Comments on: 5 Reasons To Love the DTR http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/ IT ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO SAY AT THE TIME Tue, 19 Apr 2011 00:17:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: verylatereader http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-123752 verylatereader Sun, 05 Dec 2010 07:07:19 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-123752 .... You forgot the: 'Passing the friendship stage into the making out stage is rather difficult - especially if you both are shy.' *smiles* this is awesome lol XD …. You forgot the:
‘Passing the friendship stage into the making out stage is rather difficult – especially if you both are shy.’ *smiles*

this is awesome lol XD

]]> By: julie http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-41368 julie Mon, 06 Jul 2009 01:32:05 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-41368 i was kind of wondering while reading this... but you kind of answer the question in your blog... i was wondering what are the different levels exactly and how to differentiate them? and how do you know when to move up on the scale so to speak? i mean the probably answer to that is probably something like "when it feels right" .... also how do you know when you've moved up to the next level? i was kind of wondering while reading this… but you kind of answer the question in your blog…

i was wondering what are the different levels exactly and how to differentiate them?

and how do you know when to move up on the scale so to speak? i mean the probably answer to that is probably something like “when it feels right” …. also how do you know when you’ve moved up to the next level?

]]> By: Olivia http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-25492 Olivia Tue, 03 Feb 2009 17:53:10 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-25492 ^That's quite funny. ^That’s quite funny.

]]> By: Amneris http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-2224 Amneris Sun, 29 Jul 2007 05:17:40 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-2224 my favourite DTR went like this "so wat u doing this weekend? pass the ketchup plz" "was thinking movies and a-... (frantic) r-u-my-girlfriend-now?" slow look up with french-fry hanging from lower lip "yea, ok.... hello?! ketchup plz" my favourite DTR went like this
“so wat u doing this weekend? pass the ketchup plz”
“was thinking movies and a-… (frantic) r-u-my-girlfriend-now?”
slow look up with french-fry hanging from lower lip
“yea, ok…. hello?! ketchup plz”

]]> By: Virginia Belle http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-220 Virginia Belle Fri, 23 Feb 2007 17:52:48 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-220 i have to have the DTR. i don't care who brings it up, but i must know. so what, i am comfortable with rules and boundaries. i'm anal-retentive. and i like knowing what's expected of me. besides, it makes it easier to introduce the other person. you look like a tool saying, "this is my friend..." -- after a while, it gets old. so people should have the talk already. as far as timing is concerned...i guess when you really start to develop feelings for the other person. if i can tell that i'm to the point where i would get hurt if i found out he was dating someone else on the side, it's time to cue the DTR. it's easy for guys and their timing. chances are, if you've been on 3 dates with her, she wanted to be your Official Girlfriend yesterday. so guys are pretty much golden when they bring this up. i have to have the DTR. i don’t care who brings it up, but i must know. so what, i am comfortable with rules and boundaries. i’m anal-retentive. and i like knowing what’s expected of me.

besides, it makes it easier to introduce the other person. you look like a tool saying, “this is my friend…” — after a while, it gets old. so people should have the talk already.

as far as timing is concerned…i guess when you really start to develop feelings for the other person. if i can tell that i’m to the point where i would get hurt if i found out he was dating someone else on the side, it’s time to cue the DTR.

it’s easy for guys and their timing. chances are, if you’ve been on 3 dates with her, she wanted to be your Official Girlfriend yesterday. so guys are pretty much golden when they bring this up.

]]> By: BCOL http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-139 BCOL Fri, 16 Feb 2007 18:02:19 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-139 I'm with MJ. I don't like the guess work. I like to get to the state of Ahhhhh = no confusion. :o) I’m with MJ. I don’t like the guess work. I like to get to the state of Ahhhhh = no confusion. :o)

]]> By: one girl http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-104 one girl Sat, 03 Feb 2007 01:55:43 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-104 Too funny. I've had two DTR convos and in all other situations it was just understood. To prove your point though the two DTR convos I had were basically my soon-to-be boyfriends saying "do you want to be my girlfriend?" and me saying "yeah" and then lots of making out followed. You and you're friends aren't alone in your thoughts! Too funny. I’ve had two DTR convos and in all other situations it was just understood. To prove your point though the two DTR convos I had were basically my soon-to-be boyfriends saying “do you want to be my girlfriend?” and me saying “yeah” and then lots of making out followed. You and you’re friends aren’t alone in your thoughts!

]]> By: Bart http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-103 Bart Fri, 02 Feb 2007 22:52:32 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-103 You are absolutely right that some people have a DTR need! I personally hate DTRs, except that sometimes I initiate the, lol! You are absolutely right that some people have a DTR need! I personally hate DTRs, except that sometimes I initiate the, lol!

]]> By: Susan http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-102 Susan Fri, 02 Feb 2007 20:29:20 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-102 I like being given a contract to sign. In the mail. I like being given a contract to sign. In the mail.

]]> By: Matilda Jane http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-101 Matilda Jane Fri, 02 Feb 2007 18:01:26 +0000 http://www.awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/02/5-reasons-to-love-the-dtr/#comment-101 Oh I'm a big fan of the DTR, and out of four major relationships, I have been the initiator in three. I need to know my boundaries, and know what he thinks his boundaries are... but only if I actually give a crap about it becoming a real relationship. Otherwise, it's just every man for himself chaos... er something. PS - I think your second paragraph was some kind of historic grammatical event. Oh I’m a big fan of the DTR, and out of four major relationships, I have been the initiator in three. I need to know my boundaries, and know what he thinks his boundaries are… but only if I actually give a crap about it becoming a real relationship. Otherwise, it’s just every man for himself chaos… er something.

PS – I think your second paragraph was some kind of historic grammatical event.

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