Comments on: Boundaries Are For Losers http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/ IT ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO SAY AT THE TIME Mon, 17 May 2010 18:36:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Nathanael Nerode http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-41554 Nathanael Nerode Wed, 08 Jul 2009 02:25:06 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-41554 "And was I the only one who noticed that HCE (you can’t go changing names on us mid-story!) realized that what she did looks bad but didn’t let it stop her until she thought hey boyfriend would find out?" I caught that -- the cuddling could have been just fine on her part (Justin's still not being honest with her....) without that, if she was totally unembarassed about it. But with that, rrrrrggggghhhh this isn't going to end well. Justin's relationship with the HCE is at this point a relationship based on *not* talking about what's going on in the relationship, which is a dead set recipe of disaster. I'm on the edge of my seat: it's like reading about a car wreck in slow motion. “And was I the only one who noticed that HCE (you can’t go changing names on us mid-story!) realized that what she did looks bad but didn’t let it stop her until she thought hey boyfriend would find out?”

I caught that — the cuddling could have been just fine on her part (Justin’s still not being honest with her….) without that, if she was totally unembarassed about it.

But with that, rrrrrggggghhhh this isn’t going to end well. Justin’s relationship with the HCE is at this point a relationship based on *not* talking about what’s going on in the relationship, which is a dead set recipe of disaster. I’m on the edge of my seat: it’s like reading about a car wreck in slow motion.

]]> By: Arelis http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-8422 Arelis Mon, 25 Feb 2008 23:28:02 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-8422 Yes, gotta say I love the Harry Potter mention. Is it weird to cuddle with non single friends? I like to cuddle, but usually its with friends that I've known forever and so wouldn't expect more from it... Yes, gotta say I love the Harry Potter mention.

Is it weird to cuddle with non single friends? I like to cuddle, but usually its with friends that I’ve known forever and so wouldn’t expect more from it…

]]> By: JR http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-7267 JR Tue, 15 Jan 2008 14:23:51 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-7267 reading more of this line of your blog... definitely brings back feelings for this one girl that i used to have (well they are still they and we made the 35 pack [you know... if i ain't married and you ain't married, then she would bare my children]). the worst for me was that she had a habit of ending in the spooning position (which as we all know does wonders for the libido)... i cant stop reading... reading more of this line of your blog… definitely brings back feelings for this one girl that i used to have (well they are still they and we made the 35 pack [you know... if i ain't married and you ain't married, then she would bare my children]). the worst for me was that she had a habit of ending in the spooning position (which as we all know does wonders for the libido)… i cant stop reading…

]]> By: Daniel http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-5806 Daniel Sat, 24 Nov 2007 17:54:33 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-5806 I love this blog. The Harry Potter reference was brilliant. I love this blog. The Harry Potter reference was brilliant.

]]> By: Harriet http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2356 Harriet Thu, 09 Aug 2007 00:27:53 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2356 The excruciating thing for me is that whilst I have a very nice boyfriend I also have a platonic best friend that I indulge in cuddling (and playfighting) with. He just decided that he can no longer see me, since it is too painful for him to continue to see me with someone else. I can only tell you that for HCE it must have been just as painful as it was for you if she felt anyway the same as I do... I'm just glad that I found this now, just as the platonic best friend has decided he can't see me, because now I feel that somehow I understand him and his position more. I guess what I'm trying to say is thanks, because you have given me a different viewpoint. I would like to add that you have a wonderful way with words, so keep up the good work! I'm your new biggest fan! xxx xxx The excruciating thing for me is that whilst I have a very nice boyfriend I also have a platonic best friend that I indulge in cuddling (and playfighting) with. He just decided that he can no longer see me, since it is too painful for him to continue to see me with someone else.
I can only tell you that for HCE it must have been just as painful as it was for you if she felt anyway the same as I do…
I’m just glad that I found this now, just as the platonic best friend has decided he can’t see me, because now I feel that somehow I understand him and his position more.

I guess what I’m trying to say is thanks, because you have given me a different viewpoint. I would like to add that you have a wonderful way with words, so keep up the good work! I’m your new biggest fan!

xxx xxx

]]> By: Katie http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2352 Katie Wed, 08 Aug 2007 14:03:48 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2352 It's a relief to know that boys are as autistic as girls when it comes to people they're attracted to. I'm sure the joy of hindsight has now opened your eyes to the fact that Michigan girl was playing you like a finely tuned guitar. However, who hasn't been someone's autistic, acoustic instrument of love at some stage or another? It’s a relief to know that boys are as autistic as girls when it comes to people they’re attracted to. I’m sure the joy of hindsight has now opened your eyes to the fact that Michigan girl was playing you like a finely tuned guitar. However, who hasn’t been someone’s autistic, acoustic instrument of love at some stage or another?

]]> By: photoboy http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2260 photoboy Tue, 31 Jul 2007 02:43:57 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2260 justin, i love this place. i've read everything and i am hooked. keep writing ! leelee . . . seriously ? does your bf know ? justin, i love this place. i’ve read everything and i am hooked. keep writing !

leelee . . . seriously ? does your bf know ?

]]> By: MPA http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2255 MPA Mon, 30 Jul 2007 19:56:30 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2255 Hi Justin - Just wanted to let you know you've hooked another reader! I have lots of comments to make but don't have the time just now (silly, I know, considering how long I've just spent on your blog... ) - but I will say this: I can't wait for the next installment! Oh, and that I'd like to add you to my blogroll, if that's cool with you... Hi Justin – Just wanted to let you know you’ve hooked another reader!

I have lots of comments to make but don’t have the time just now (silly, I know, considering how long I’ve just spent on your blog… ) – but I will say this: I can’t wait for the next installment!

Oh, and that I’d like to add you to my blogroll, if that’s cool with you…

]]> By: Incognito http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2254 Incognito Mon, 30 Jul 2007 19:39:15 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2254 lenfercest: The hell it isn't ;) Well my cuddling over the years would probably make for a couple of good stories, but I think I'll leave it to the pros. lenfercest: The hell it isn’t ;) Well my cuddling over the years would probably make for a couple of good stories, but I think I’ll leave it to the pros.

]]> By: Sumo http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/comment-page-1/#comment-2250 Sumo Mon, 30 Jul 2007 19:08:40 +0000 http://awkwardthingsisaytogirls.com/2007/07/boundaries-are-for-losers/#comment-2250 Heck yeah, if you can't appreciate the pain you're not getting anything from the story! Heck yeah, if you can’t appreciate the pain you’re not getting anything from the story!

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